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If It Hurts, It Isn't Love: And 365 Other Principles to Heal and Transform Your Relationships Paperback - 2000

by Chuck Spezzano; Foreword by Robert Holden

Spezzano finds the truth in simple insights that show how to look afresh at one's most important relationships, heal pain, and bring love and forgiveness. After each principle, he gives brief exercises that nudge readers further, prompting them to absorb insights even more deeply.


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In If It Hurts, It Isn't Love, author Chuck Spezzano finds truth in simple insights: What I think I need is what I am called to give. Depression is the fear that something new will leave me. When someone gets angry at me, there is a lesson for me to learn. Jealousy is a birthing place. These principles show how to look afresh at one's most important relationships, in a way that heals pain and brings love and forgiveness. After each principle, the author gives brief exercises that nudge readers further, prompting them to absorb the insights even more deeply.

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WHATEVER ASSAILS US IN a relationship, whatever brings questions, doubt, or pain, whatever the problem is, the answer will come when we truly move toward our partner.

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  • Title If It Hurts, It Isn't Love: And 365 Other Principles to Heal and Transform Your Relationships
  • Author Chuck Spezzano; Foreword by Robert Holden
  • Binding Paperback
  • Edition [ Edition: repri
  • Pages 416
  • Volumes 1
  • Language ENG
  • Publisher Da Capo Lifelong Books, New York
  • Date 2000-03-27
  • Illustrated Yes
  • Features Illustrated
  • ISBN 9781569246344 / 1569246343
  • Weight 0.83 lbs (0.38 kg)
  • Dimensions 8.28 x 5.5 x 1.13 in (21.03 x 13.97 x 2.87 cm)
  • Themes
    • Topical: Divorce
    • Topical: Family
  • Library of Congress subjects Interpersonal relations, Love
  • Library of Congress Catalog Number 00021894
  • Dewey Decimal Code 158.2

About the author

Chuck Spezzano, Ph.D., is a highly successful seminar and workshop leader, author, lecturer, visionary leader, and the co-founder of the Psychology of Vision, an international training organization. He is the author of many other books, including If It Hurts, It Isn't Love and The Enlightenment Pack. He lives in Hawaii.
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